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What is "Swinging"

What is "Swinging" ?

what can swinging offer you?

Swinging could be exciting, a turn on, and a chance to explore your sexuality and find out more about what turns you on. Having sexual experiences with different partners could give you – and your partner – more ideas about the range of sexual experiences that you could try, either in a swinging situation or in your own one-to-one relationship. It could give you a chance – more commonly for women – to explore sexual situations with someone of the same sex.

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Talking openly and honestly with your partner about what turns you on allows for the possibility of sexual fulfilment. It is an achievement to get to this level of openness in a monogamous relationship, so being able to be confident enough with someone to explore sex with other people can demonstrate a level of trust and security in who you are and in the relationship. This could be liberating and deepen the closeness of your relationship, taking it to a new level.

do you have to be bisexual?

Many swingers enjoy a range of swinging experiences, which can include anything from watching another couple having sex, to swapping partners, to group sex with a number of people. 

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These may or may not involve same-sex experiences. Where they do happen, these would be much more likely to be between women. Swinging affords many more opportunities for women to explore sex with other women, or for men to watch their female partners having sex with another woman than for men to explore their bisexuality.

Swinger Principles

Swinging is not simply being open about your sexual feelings and being adventurous about it. You and your partner should follow some swinging principles to ensure that your encounter is also fun and fulfilling. The following are some suggested swinging principles that you and your partner may want to use:

1. You and your partner should never attempt to break up a marriage.
   
2. When a date is made, always keep up to it or else give ample time of notice for changing circumstances.
3. It is important to keep the first meeting on a "no strings attached" basis. You and your partner should be prepared to swing if it is mutually agreed or to give an honest answer if something does not work out.
4. It is reminder that you never under any circumstances exercise pressure on your partner to swing.
5. It is suggested that you and your partner restrict discussions of swinging to known swingers and interested individuals seeking information.
6. Be wise and protect the anonymity of other swingers by abstaining from unauthorized "name dropping."
7. For the stake of other swingers, always maintain the highest standards of personal cleanliness and appearance.
8. Be smart and not to engage in any unlawful activity that would harm the reputation of other swingers as a group.
9. Always be friendly and warm with your swing partners. Be understanding that there is a type of emotional involvement, which is properly reserved for a spouse or "primary significant other." 
10. Lastly, remember to show respect for the personal attitudes and feelings of other swingers.
     

    Swinger Lifestyle

    A swinger lifestyle is free from a world of frustration and lost loves. The swinger’s lifestyle simply gives and receive pleasure, but there are a few important points to remember if you are to enter a swinger lifestyle:

    1. No one should swing unless they really want to.

    2. No one should ever go into a swinging life style if they are at all uncertain of their own wishes or of the strength of their emotional relationship with their partner.

    Swinger's life style is based upon communication more then any other factors. Couples involved in swinger’s lifestyle should have the ability to talk openly about there feelings with one another. Learning to do this must precede any decision or discussion of entering the life style.

     

Common Types of Swinger Lifestyle :

Soft swinging – This is involves in watching another couple during sexual relations. It may also include foreplay with other partners, sometimes including oral sex, but no vaginal penetration will takes places. Soft swinging can add spice to a couple’s relationship and allowing them to have fun without the risk of jealously. Many couples start off with soft swinging as this is a good way to explore a swinger's life style.

Closed swinging – This is where partner swap, but have sexual intercourse in separate rooms. Closed swinging allows couples and individual for a more intimate experience. Many people feel this allows them more freedom to explore with fewer interruptions of their enjoyment.

Open swinging – This kind of swinging allows partners to swap and have sexual intercourse in the same room, or bed. This includes orgies and it is great for exhibitionist and voyeurs, who can show off or just enjoy watching their partner play. Many swingers find open swinging allows for total release of their sexual desires and fantasies. An open swinging is successful when all members in the group demonstrate no jealousy.

When you enter a swinger life style you must be very health conscious. Always practice safe sex and make sure you and your partner are disease free. Many swingers would say they practice safe sex, but they probably don’t. So some kinds of health risks always exist. It is up to you to make your own judgment.

More and more people are getting into swinger life style as this give couples and individuals a break for the senseless tension and demanding stress in their daily life. Refreshing sex is the best antidote to relieve stress. A swinger lifestyle teaches you to give and take pleasure like the way you have never experience before. 

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