Swingers Rules

The context of swinging, couples need not be married. They should at very least have a little history together and familiar with each others’ emotional needs. This is a very important rule when it comes to being comfortable approaching other couples who are in a swinger lifestyle. The general rule of thumb is that swinging works best when couples view swinging as an enhancement to their existing sexual relationship, rather than to replace a fail one.  

If you are thinking of enter swinger lifestyle good communication is critical. There are many different kinds of swinging.  Remember whichever one you choose is good as long as your partner and you are clear about what you are doing and why.  Sex is a powerful part of human experience and the pleasures that may be found in swinging can generally be reached only when both partners are sensitive to each others' needs.  Each must put their partner's confidence and comfort first. From a more realistic point of view, there will always be another party, another personal ad, another dance, or another convention.  There may not be another chance to save an exploration into swinging if one partner becomes overwhelmed with it and forgets to treat his or her primary partner with sensitivity and respect.

It is important to remember swinging is only a primarily social activity. The normal social customs of meeting people and initiating a conversation are really not that different than at any other type of social interaction. The process by which associates become close friends is not that different either.

The key social behaviors that tend to be appreciated in the swinging community are responsibility, friendliness, flirtatiousness, open-mindedness, and most importantly stability with regard to one's primary relationship.It might be worth thinking about whether there are any potential situations that you feel you would be more or less comfortable in and then discuss these with your partner. The pros and cons of whether or not you and your mate are compatible with the swinging lifestyle or even interested in it are many.  Whatever you do, be sure that both of you are committed to it before ever trying it out.

Swinger Club Rules

Swinger club rules are only there for you, your partner, and other guest to follow for a guaranteed great time at swinger clubs. Every swinger club has rules some will be different from others. Here are some general rules that most clubs will have:

The Golden Rule of all: "NO means absolutely NO"

During any swinging moment when anyone says "NO", regardless of any reason, no means to "STOP" all activities at once. No explanation are needed to be given as it would be understand.

Just because you do not want to jeopardize your happiness and satisfaction with this lifestyle or that of your partner, but doing something against your own will because you are frighten of saying "no" is something you must not do.

The most polite way to say no is by saying, "No thank you, but appreciate you for asking". By doing so you are being honest to yourself and the person asking, plus you will also avoid any misunderstandings.

Treat others with respect, meaning be polite

If you want others to treat you with respect you treat others just the way you want to be treated. Club parties are suppose to be fun, by being rude and judgmental are not a cool way to go. So, just approach things politely.

Never assume anything, always ask

By making assumption, doesn't make you very popular at club parties. Popularity status start by making sure that you know where everyone priority stands before you do anything. If you don't the potential for embarrassment is the consequences.

Swinger Club Rules Don't

Excessive Drinking

Don't be a fool and drink more then what your body can consume. Excessive drinking can impair your judgment as well as put you into a very embarrassing situation when sex is call for. So know your limits.

Dealing with Jealousy

Jealousy is very common, especially in swinging conditions. To avoid any jealousy from happening always arrive with your partner together, take the time to caress each other, stay close to your partner, touch base often which makes one feel secure and lastly always leave together.

If jealousy does occur cease all activities immediately and move yourselves to a quite place to discuss the problem. If the problem cannot be solve, then suggest leaving the party and work out your differences else where.

Drugs are prohibited

Any sort of drugs will not be tolerated in any way. This includes the carrying and using of drugs within the clubs premises. Anyone found will drugs will result to immediate remove from the club.

Dress code:

In general most dress code is to “Dress to impress”. 

The key is sexy for the ladies and classy for the gents.

It can also be sexy:



In our "SWINGER ZONE" its not allowed to walk arround with your clothes. The ladies can wear sexy clubwear and the men wear boxers or slips.



When you go into our swinger zone you can leave your clothes and bags in the lockers. Towels wil be available.

MYSTIQUE RULES:

1-We offer and expect absolute hygiene and discretion.

2-Admission is restricted to adults only. Single men are allowed but limited. They have to respect the rules and the couples.

3-Consumption of brought food and beverages is not allowed.

4-NO means NO! Everyone must respect other guests wishes!

5-If you wish contact with the other guests then address them polite and directly.

6-Use of drugs and prostitution are forebidden. It will lead to being banned from the premises and can lead to prosecution by the police.

7-Excessive use of alcohol is forebidden. Drunk guests will be asked to leave. Guests who arrive drunk will not be allowed to enter the club.

8-Dress to impress! Sportsclothes, shorts, etc are not acceptable. Every day sexy dress is expected.

9-Taking pictures is not allowed. Cameras and mobile phones with cameras are forebidden.

10-Please follow all directions given by our staff.

ALWAY PRACTICE SAFE SEX !!

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